"You must unlearn what you have learned." Those aren't my words; they're Yoda's - you know, from "Star Wars?" Well, whether you know him or not, what he said is true.
You do know that everything you've been taught and everything you've experienced isn't all right, -right?
The Bible urges us to not conform to the patterns of the world, but to be transformed by the renewing of our minds, so we can figure out what GOD's will is for our lives.
Bottom line: when we learn better, we can serve God better with clearer purpose for our lives!
Do you ever ask yourself, "What are the things I understand about life that may not actually be right or God's will for me?" -Maybe you should?
"Don’t be conformed to the patterns of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your minds so that you can figure out what God’s will is—what is good and pleasing and mature." - Romans 12:2
"Examine yourselves to see if you are in the faith. Test yourselves. Don’t you understand that Jesus Christ is in you? Unless, of course, you fail the test." - 2 Corinthians 13:5